She’s on her way home. We had our customary breakfast at a local diner near where she got on the Interstate, heading back to where she had come from. All in all, it was a very successful and satisfying visit, though both of us are feeling a bit melancholy right now. Changing some things around…
Tag: #bdsm-long distance
Crunch Time
She’ll be here in about 3 hours. Driving from where she lives to here, she left this morning pretty early (7 am). Got a message as she was entering another state, keeping me apprised of her progress. Just got a notification that she refilled her gas tank. So she’s making good time. The house isn’t…
Home Stretch
There. That’s the goal. It’s been too long since I’ve seen her car rounding the corner and coming up to my house. We’re down to counting days. Soon it will be hours. We don’t tend to drag it down to minutes or seconds, that gets tedious and difficult to keep up with. I could add…
Design a D/s household from the ground up
Wow. Yeah, that’s a mouthful, right? Say you’re someone in a relationship and it just so happens you’re about to set up housekeeping with your counterpart. You’re going to meld 2 separate households into one. You’ve found the perfect place to do so purchased and closed on the property and in the midst of moving…
3 weeks, but who’s counting?
The time is quickly arriving for my Pet’s visit in mid-late September. We’ve both been counting the months and now we’re down to counting weeks. She just finished up a trip to Tennessee that she took with her family, and has been back home for a few days. Now thats concluded begins the push to…
Patience
“Patience is a virtue” Sometimes I think about that quote. And I think about my ongoing situation with my Pet, being several hours apart, being unable to meet and forward our relationship as often as either of us wish, being patient for months on end, and in some cases years (don’t get me started on…
What’s in a name?
About 8 or 9 months ago, my Pet decided she wanted to change her username on FetLife to bring it into line with how she saw herself. Not as merely my submissive, but she wanted to add a dominant ‘flair’. At the time she was feeling switchy, and wanted the username to reflect that as…
Oh, the Possibilities!
[2 April] I did a thing yesterday afternoon. My pet and I have been planning our visit(s) for 2025 and have been discussing methods of play as well as how best to accomplish them. One of the things we’ve been discussing is a change in the way that we do our play, ie not exclusively…
Happy New Year 2025
I have to say, 2024 was a bust when it came to kinky play or kinky much of anything in my world. Here’s to hoping that will be rectified this year, and our fledgling plans for the future move forward with success. As for everyone else; wishing you a Happy New Year, enjoyment of your…
All Quiet on the BDSM Front
As I’ve posted very recently, BDSM has taken a back seat to other things in my life due to distance from my pet, and the agreement that we have which dictates if both of us aren’t together, I’m not to practice with anyone else. This sounds like a switcheroo and might cause people to wonder…