My Pet and I are going to be attending a munch this evening. Definitely overdue. I pretty much (well, completely) stopped going to munches (and play parties) when it became clear I’d be attending them alone. That sucked all the fun out of the experience, so I just stopped. Also, with my Pet being in…
Category: Fetlife
Design a D/s household from the ground up
Wow. Yeah, that’s a mouthful, right? Say you’re someone in a relationship and it just so happens you’re about to set up housekeeping with your counterpart. You’re going to meld 2 separate households into one. You’ve found the perfect place to do so purchased and closed on the property and in the midst of moving…
What’s in a name?
About 8 or 9 months ago, my Pet decided she wanted to change her username on FetLife to bring it into line with how she saw herself. Not as merely my submissive, but she wanted to add a dominant ‘flair’. At the time she was feeling switchy, and wanted the username to reflect that as…
Whew, found it! Now what?
I’ve been going back and forth in my brain whether or not to write about this. Of course, since I have such a small following, I ended up deciding it won’t do much harm to. So here it is. Like many kinksters, I’ve been a fan of Insex almost since the beginning. From that inception,…
Dungeons of Fetlife
Many years ago on Fetlife, a friend came up with an idea for a story of your own making. I don’t remember all of the details of how it came about, but the main gist of it was, you were led into a dungeon area of Fetlife, and from there you could craft a scenario…
A little help goes a long way
The other day I was browsing through Fetlife when I came across a post on a selling group from someone semi-local to me. She was trying to sell a set of kinky furniture she had purchased as a present for her (then) submissive who, when seeing the equipment apparently had a change of heart and…
Old Dogs and New Tricks
The other day, I was combing through my email and a Fetlife post caught my eye. It was from someone that wasn’t on my radar, and they were posting about a steel collar that they had recently crafted in their home workshop and were posting not only pictures but a veritable how-to of how they…