She’s on her way home. We had our customary breakfast at a local diner near where she got on the Interstate, heading back to where she had come from. All in all, it was a very successful and satisfying visit, though both of us are feeling a bit melancholy right now. Changing some things around…
Category: Toys
Crunch Time
She’ll be here in about 3 hours. Driving from where she lives to here, she left this morning pretty early (7 am). Got a message as she was entering another state, keeping me apprised of her progress. Just got a notification that she refilled her gas tank. So she’s making good time. The house isn’t…
Design a D/s household from the ground up
Wow. Yeah, that’s a mouthful, right? Say you’re someone in a relationship and it just so happens you’re about to set up housekeeping with your counterpart. You’re going to meld 2 separate households into one. You’ve found the perfect place to do so purchased and closed on the property and in the midst of moving…
Rope Bight
Several weeks ago as I was driving to the pizza place to pick up dinner, I was talking to my pet on the phone (we have a ritual, whereby if I’m going to get dinner out, she messages “Shotgun!” and I call her later so she can come along for the ride) and as our…
Kinky Arts & Crafts
Wow! Look at this beauty! And it’s not bought at some store either. It was handmade by my Pet over the past couple of weeks through her local munch group. Which makes it all the better because it’s made with love and is unique, as it was made by her, and not mass produced for…
Oh, the Possibilities!
[2 April] I did a thing yesterday afternoon. My pet and I have been planning our visit(s) for 2025 and have been discussing methods of play as well as how best to accomplish them. One of the things we’ve been discussing is a change in the way that we do our play, ie not exclusively…
Future Furniture
Over the past few years, I’ve been considering what sort of kinky furniture I want to have in my house/dungeon/fungeon/play space when the time comes. I have my (now fairly ancient) spanking bench, but I’d like to have some other items to use when my Pet becomes the housePet. She and I have had fledgling…
Rope Bite
My pet went to a local ‘rope bite’ gathering at a friend’s house Friday night, and learned some new ties. She’s been ‘bitten’ by the rope bug for many years and has been jonesing for some more experience ever since. She recently met a younger couple at a munch and apparently the conversation got around…
Broken Links
While I was researching one of my recent posts, I discovered that a fair few places that I had used over the years to purchase items are no longer viable. The websites are gone, the people that ran them seem to be no longer in the scene, or just gave up on the whole business…
Lament
lament [ləˈment] – noun 1. an expression of regret or disappointment Of all of the kink-related toys that I’ve either purchased or acquired over the years, I would have to say far and away my collection of floggers are my most prized. That being said, I somewhat regret choosing the Heartwood elk flogger instead of the…