Many years ago on Fetlife, a friend came up with an idea for a story of your own making. I don’t remember all of the details of how it came about, but the main gist of it was, you were led into a dungeon area of Fetlife, and from there you could craft a scenario…
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When BDSM & your Marriage Don’t Mesh
I’ve been following a certain Dominant for about a month, and he’s been very prolific in his postings. However, within the last few days, he suddenly went completely silent. Not only on my feed, but his Instagram account disappeared as well. I wasn’t sure why (it could easily be any number of reasons) but with…
Dungeon Upgrade
[Cleaning up the Draft folder. This one I started in July of last year…..] Ever have one of those brainstorms where you think to yourself “wouldn’t it be great if I had the time, money and space to do…..something”? Yeah, me too. Though I have the time, I don’t yet have the money or space to…
Keep kink in your heart
It’s January, 2024. It will be several months before my pet can return from VA to visit. In the meantime, I have to keep occupied and attempt to keep things fresh for when she does arrive. Which is a tall order when you’re basically in a holding pattern until that occurs. In the interim, I…
T’was the Kinky Night Before Christmas
A Kinky Night before Christmas Note: This isn’t my writing, I remember reading this on the alt.sex.bondage Usenet newsgroup. (Yeah, I’m that old) This was originally written by Steven S. Davis, and as Tiny Tim would say God Bless ‘Im! ‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the house Not a sound escaped from…
Keep the Holidays Merry
We’re deep in the Christmas season, and my pet and I are still long distance. The fact of the matter is, for the forseeable future that’s going to remain the case. Even so, we try to celebrate the holidays best that we can, maintaining our connection and checking off another season til we can see…
Our ‘Chair’
A kinky friend of mine posted today about a session she and her Master had with a particular piece of furniture they own. It easily reminded me of many conversations my Pet and I have had over the years about the inclusion of a similar piece of furniture that could be incorporated into our play. …
Old Dogs and New Tricks
The other day, I was combing through my email and a Fetlife post caught my eye. It was from someone that wasn’t on my radar, and they were posting about a steel collar that they had recently crafted in their home workshop and were posting not only pictures but a veritable how-to of how they…