When I was in school I remember reading about the doldrums. For those of you that have never heard of such a thing, its an area of the Atlantic Ocean near the Equator that is very calm, almost to the point where there’s little wind or ocean movement. At the tune we were learning about…
Category: Planning
Winging her way …
She’s on her way home. We had our customary breakfast at a local diner near where she got on the Interstate, heading back to where she had come from. All in all, it was a very successful and satisfying visit, though both of us are feeling a bit melancholy right now. Changing some things around…
Crunch Time
She’ll be here in about 3 hours. Driving from where she lives to here, she left this morning pretty early (7 am). Got a message as she was entering another state, keeping me apprised of her progress. Just got a notification that she refilled her gas tank. So she’s making good time. The house isn’t…
Home Stretch
There. That’s the goal. It’s been too long since I’ve seen her car rounding the corner and coming up to my house. We’re down to counting days. Soon it will be hours. We don’t tend to drag it down to minutes or seconds, that gets tedious and difficult to keep up with. I could add…
Design a D/s household from the ground up
Wow. Yeah, that’s a mouthful, right? Say you’re someone in a relationship and it just so happens you’re about to set up housekeeping with your counterpart. You’re going to meld 2 separate households into one. You’ve found the perfect place to do so purchased and closed on the property and in the midst of moving…
3 weeks, but who’s counting?
The time is quickly arriving for my Pet’s visit in mid-late September. We’ve both been counting the months and now we’re down to counting weeks. She just finished up a trip to Tennessee that she took with her family, and has been back home for a few days. Now thats concluded begins the push to…
Patience
“Patience is a virtue” Sometimes I think about that quote. And I think about my ongoing situation with my Pet, being several hours apart, being unable to meet and forward our relationship as often as either of us wish, being patient for months on end, and in some cases years (don’t get me started on…
All Quiet on the BDSM Front
As I’ve posted very recently, BDSM has taken a back seat to other things in my life due to distance from my pet, and the agreement that we have which dictates if both of us aren’t together, I’m not to practice with anyone else. This sounds like a switcheroo and might cause people to wonder…
Back Burner
Kidney stones suck. There, I said it. I’ve been dealing with kidney stones for the past half year and it’s causing a lot of uproar in my BDSM life. Last year I was able to see my pet twice, after being separated for a couple of years due to COVID and other issues. We’d hoped…
Postpone Play?
2024 is quickly becoming a lot like 2021 turned out to be. With a few exceptions. But basically, my pet’s and my plans for meeting keep being pushed back due to circumstances. First, my wife’s and my summer vacation keeps having to be rescheduled, which causes issues with the timing of my pet’s vacation here,…