“Patience is a virtue” Sometimes I think about that quote. And I think about my ongoing situation with my Pet, being several hours apart, being unable to meet and forward our relationship as often as either of us wish, being patient for months on end, and in some cases years (don’t get me started on…
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What’s in a name?
About 8 or 9 months ago, my Pet decided she wanted to change her username on FetLife to bring it into line with how she saw herself. Not as merely my submissive, but she wanted to add a dominant ‘flair’. At the time she was feeling switchy, and wanted the username to reflect that as…
Kinky Arts & Crafts
Wow! Look at this beauty! And it’s not bought at some store either. It was handmade by my Pet over the past couple of weeks through her local munch group. Which makes it all the better because it’s made with love and is unique, as it was made by her, and not mass produced for…
Oh, the Possibilities!
[2 April] I did a thing yesterday afternoon. My pet and I have been planning our visit(s) for 2025 and have been discussing methods of play as well as how best to accomplish them. One of the things we’ve been discussing is a change in the way that we do our play, ie not exclusively…
Dream State
I’m taking a well-deserved vacation from work, so my sleep times tend to be a little funky, at least until I get it through my thick skull that going to bed at a decent hour makes more sense than doing it at 1-2 am, thereby getting up at 9 or 10 am, when most of…
Retro Musica
I was thinking the other morning when I was in the shower before work how much music has played a part in recent years in my play sessions. It didn’t always used to be that way, though. When I was first starting out in BDSM, play sessions were always quiet. No music, no outside interactions….
Happy New Year 2025
I have to say, 2024 was a bust when it came to kinky play or kinky much of anything in my world. Here’s to hoping that will be rectified this year, and our fledgling plans for the future move forward with success. As for everyone else; wishing you a Happy New Year, enjoyment of your…
All Quiet on the BDSM Front
As I’ve posted very recently, BDSM has taken a back seat to other things in my life due to distance from my pet, and the agreement that we have which dictates if both of us aren’t together, I’m not to practice with anyone else. This sounds like a switcheroo and might cause people to wonder…
A Kinky Night Before Christmas
I just happened to notice that I posted this last year as well. Tradition? Showing my age? I turned off comments, as it seemed repetitive to leave them open for something I already said in 2023. Happy Holidays, dear readers. -Leathers Note: This isn’t my writing, I remember reading this on the alt.sex.bondage Usenet newsgroup….
Back Burner
Kidney stones suck. There, I said it. I’ve been dealing with kidney stones for the past half year and it’s causing a lot of uproar in my BDSM life. Last year I was able to see my pet twice, after being separated for a couple of years due to COVID and other issues. We’d hoped…