Wow. Yeah, that’s a mouthful, right? Say you’re someone in a relationship and it just so happens you’re about to set up housekeeping with your counterpart. You’re going to meld 2 separate households into one. You’ve found the perfect place to do so purchased and closed on the property and in the midst of moving…
3 weeks, but who’s counting?
The time is quickly arriving for my Pet’s visit in mid-late September. We’ve both been counting the months and now we’re down to counting weeks. She just finished up a trip to Tennessee that she took with her family, and has been back home for a few days. Now thats concluded begins the push to…
Rope Bight
Several weeks ago as I was driving to the pizza place to pick up dinner, I was talking to my pet on the phone (we have a ritual, whereby if I’m going to get dinner out, she messages “Shotgun!” and I call her later so she can come along for the ride) and as our…
Patience
“Patience is a virtue” Sometimes I think about that quote. And I think about my ongoing situation with my Pet, being several hours apart, being unable to meet and forward our relationship as often as either of us wish, being patient for months on end, and in some cases years (don’t get me started on…
What’s in a name?
About 8 or 9 months ago, my Pet decided she wanted to change her username on FetLife to bring it into line with how she saw herself. Not as merely my submissive, but she wanted to add a dominant ‘flair’. At the time she was feeling switchy, and wanted the username to reflect that as…
Kinky Arts & Crafts
Wow! Look at this beauty! And it’s not bought at some store either. It was handmade by my Pet over the past couple of weeks through her local munch group. Which makes it all the better because it’s made with love and is unique, as it was made by her, and not mass produced for…
Oh, the Possibilities!
[2 April] I did a thing yesterday afternoon. My pet and I have been planning our visit(s) for 2025 and have been discussing methods of play as well as how best to accomplish them. One of the things we’ve been discussing is a change in the way that we do our play, ie not exclusively…
Dream State
I’m taking a well-deserved vacation from work, so my sleep times tend to be a little funky, at least until I get it through my thick skull that going to bed at a decent hour makes more sense than doing it at 1-2 am, thereby getting up at 9 or 10 am, when most of…
Retro Musica
I was thinking the other morning when I was in the shower before work how much music has played a part in recent years in my play sessions. It didn’t always used to be that way, though. When I was first starting out in BDSM, play sessions were always quiet. No music, no outside interactions….
Happy New Year 2025
I have to say, 2024 was a bust when it came to kinky play or kinky much of anything in my world. Here’s to hoping that will be rectified this year, and our fledgling plans for the future move forward with success. As for everyone else; wishing you a Happy New Year, enjoyment of your…